- have
- have, hold, own, possess, enjoy are comparable when they mean to keep, control, retain, or experience as one's own.Have is the most general term and in itself carries no implication of a cause or reason for regarding the thing had as one's own{
he has considerable property
}{they have five children
}{we have no cow at present
}{have opinions on a subject
}{she has many friends
}{they are going to have a baby
}{he has no French
}{we shall have some trouble with it
}Hold implies stronger control over than have and usually suggests a grasp upon, an occupancy of, or a bond between; thus, "to have friends" implies a mere amicable relationship, but "to hold one's friends" implies either the reducing of them to subjection or the retaining of their affection; "to have an opinion" implies merely the existence of that opinion, whereas "to hold an opinion" usually suggests its assertion{hold extensive properties in New York State
}{once did she hold the gorgeous East in fee— Wordsworth
}{the Breton seized more than he could hold; the Norman took less than he would have liked— Henry Adams
}{the receptive imagination . . . holds fast the visions genius creates— Eliot
}Own implies a natural or legal right to hold as one's property and under one's full control{own a house
}{own several horses
}{when a child is old enough, he should ... be allowed to own books— Russell
}{some parents treat their children as if they owned them
}Possess is preferred in law to own as implying one's having full title and right to a particular property to the exclusion of everyone else; thus, a husband and wife might say that they own a piece of land when legally only the husband possesses it. In general use possess differs from own in being referable to other things than property (as a characteristic, a quality, a power, or a faculty){possess contentment
}{the States possessed the power to exclude or admit them [slaves]— John Marshall
}{that astonishingly retentive memory which we possessed as little boys— Inge
}{the great medicinal value possessed by this water— Heiser
}Enjoy (see also LIKE) implies the having of something as one's own or for one's use with all its benefits and advantages; in this sense there is no necessary connotation of pleasure or delight in having or using, but, except in law, the word often does carry a hint if not a definite suggestion of it{during his lifetime he enjoyed a distinguished reputation for the excellence of his sermons— T. S. Eliot
}{while man enjoyed ... an unlimited freedom to be wicked— Henry Adams
}{classes that enjoy certain rights and privileges
}Contrasted words: want, *lack, need
New Dictionary of Synonyms. 2014.